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Understanding Your Dog: Clinginess, Withdrawal & the Walking Curve
Tips on why dogs act clingy or withdrawn and how to use the curve to help them feel safe on walks.

Does Your Dog Trust You?
Trust is the foundation of every strong relationship—and that includes the one you share with your dog. While dogs can’t tell us with words how they feel, their body language, behavior, and daily choices speak volumes. Understanding these signals helps you build a deeper bond and create a sense of safety that allows your dog to thrive.
Here are seven key signs your dog truly trusts you:
1. They Choose to Be Near You
A trusting dog seeks connection without pressure. They might follow you from room to room, rest beside you on the couch, or simply relax nearby while you work. Choosing proximity—without demanding constant attention—is one of the clearest signs your dog feels safe in your presence.
2. They Make Eye Contact (and Blink Softly)
Soft, gentle eye contact is a major trust signal in dogs. When your dog gazes at you with relaxed eyes and even gives slow blinks, it’s a sign of emotional safety. In contrast, hard stares or avoiding your gaze can indicate stress or discomfort.
3. Their Body Language Is Loose and Relaxed
A dog that feels safe with you will have a loose, wiggly body, relaxed tail, and calm breathing. You might notice gentle stretches, belly-up lounging, or even happy sighs when they settle beside you. These are all ways dogs say, “I’m comfortable here.”
4. They’re Comfortable Being Vulnerable…READ MORE
Using a “Curve” When Walking Past Distractions
When dogs meet for the first time—or when they’re feeling uncertain in their environment—they naturally use body language to communicate safety and intent. One of the most common signals you’ll see is the “curve.”
Instead of walking directly toward another dog, person, or object, a dog will often move in a gentle arc or curve around it. This curved approach is their way of saying, “I’m friendly and mean no harm,” or sometimes, “I’m not sure about that, so I’ll keep my distance.”
This natural behavior helps dogs manage social pressure and maintain a sense of security. When we give them the space and leash length to move freely, you’ll often see your dog choose this curved path on their own—it’s how they stay calm and communicate confidence.
The next time you’re out on a walk, try using the curve intentionally. If your dog becomes uneasy about another dog, person, or even a noisy object, guide them in a smooth arc rather than walking straight past. This technique allows your dog to feel safer, reduces tension, and prevents reactive behavior.
Check out the video below to see how you can use the curve to help your dog feel more secure and confident when walking past distractions.

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